Treatment FAQ

how to help a child while my ex wife goes through cancer treatment

by Mrs. Zita Ritchie DDS Published 3 years ago Updated 2 years ago
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Can kids be around someone getting chemo?

You may worry about the safety of family and friends while you are having chemotherapy. There is little risk to visitors, including children, babies and pregnant women, because they aren't likely to come into contact with any chemotherapy drugs or body fluids.

How long after chemo can you father a child?

Fathering a child after cancer treatment There are no firm rules for how long men should wait after treatment, but health care providers usually recommend waiting 2 to 5 years. Sperm may be damaged by chemotherapy or radiation therapy. Those sperm should be replaced in 2 years.

What to say to a child whose parent has cancer?

When a parent has cancer: Helping teens and kids copeSay that it's cancer.Tell your kids, "You didn't cause it. You can't catch it. You can't control it."Also, tell your kids that you can still spend quality time together, participate in care, still be a kid, have fun, etc.

What are the emotional stages of cancer?

The Five Stages of Dealing with a Cancer DiagnosisState 1: Denial. ... Stage 2: Anger. ... Stage 3: Bargaining. ... Stage 4: Sadness and depression. ... Stage 5: Acceptance.

Are chemo patients toxic to others?

Chemotherapy drugs are considered to be hazardous to people who handle them or come into contact with them. For patients, this means the drugs are strong enough to damage or kill cancer cells. But this also means the drugs can be a concern for others who might be exposed to them.

What should you not do during chemotherapy?

9 things to avoid during chemotherapy treatmentContact with body fluids after treatment. ... Overextending yourself. ... Infections. ... Large meals. ... Raw or undercooked foods. ... Hard, acidic, or spicy foods. ... Frequent or heavy alcohol consumption. ... Smoking.More items...•

How can I help my child with a terminally ill parent?

Helping a Child When a Loved One Is Terminally IllBeing sensitive to what they want to know and when they are ready to know it.Offering honest, simple explanations.Really listening to what they say.Accepting their feelings, whatever they may be.Not putting them off.Examining our own feelings and beliefs.

How can I help my child with a sick parent?

Ways that your child might help the family member....Talking with Children about the Serious Illness of a Family...Trust that adults will give her information that she needs.Work through her own feelings.Be included rather than isolated.Feel safe asking questions.Be able to help in her own way.

What do you say to someone whose child has been diagnosed with cancer?

Positive things to say may include:I want to help you. What night can I drop a dinner off for you?I can't imagine how you must feel. I'm always here to talk if you need me.You're handling this with so much courage and strength. ... I'm thinking of you.I know someone whose child also has/had cancer.

Why do cancer patients push you away?

At times patients may pull away because they feel overwhelmed by the care they receive. For example, even when caregivers have the best of intentions when they encourage patients to eat properly, the patient may feel pressured and sense a loss of independence.

Why are cancer patients so mean?

Cancer patients simply want to be their old selves, Spiegel says, so they often can fail to make their new needs clear to their loved ones and caregivers, which can lead to frustration and anger.

How do you stay positive during cancer treatment?

Here's some of the best advice I've gleaned about staying positive during my cancer treatment:You are your best advocate. ... Take good notes. ... Focus on the things you can control. ... Don't confine your conversations to health topics. ... Appreciate your loved ones. ... Develop a good support network. ... Never give up.

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