Putting Texting Into Practice
I no longer live at home; I live in another state. Call it long-distance caregiving or simply being a caring daughter, but texting (and FaceTime) has made it much easier to be present and supportive throughout my mom’s cancer journey.
12 Text Messages To Send Someone With Cancer
If you’re comfortable sending someone you love who has been diagnosed with cancer a text message to show support, where do you begin?
Treatment
As they’re going through treatment, reminding them that you’re part of their support system is also very helpful. Comment on their strength; remind them of a time in their life when they showed great courage; tell them why you admire them and how they’ve overcome other challenges.
Remission
Remission can come in different shapes and sizes. For some it’s, “Yes, we’ve beaten this!” If that’s the case, here are some messages you can write:
End of Life
This is the most difficult time, but your words can still have a positive and uplifting impact. It’s important to keep things feeling in the now: be cheerful and bring sunshine to their day. Remember they can be very tired so less might be more.
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What to say when someone is terminally ill?
When someone is terminally ill, the circumstances are more grave. However, the tone and intent of your message shouldn’t change. You should still offer warmth, encouragement, and support, no matter how much time they may have left. It’s your choice on how you want to impact their time here — so make it enjoyable.
Is the mind-body connection real?
The mind-body connection is a real thing. It’s likely that you want to see your loved one enjoy their life as much as possible, regardless of their health limitations. Doing your part by sharing words of encouragement can work wonders for them .
Can you go through cancer alone?
Getting a diagnosis of cancer — regardless of the type or stage — is something no one should go through alone. It’s understandable that some people are fiercely private, and you may hear of someone’s diagnosis through the grapevine. However, sharing some words of encouragement isn’t a bad idea.
Guides
This letter should respectfully acknowledge the reader's misfortune while offering comfort and support. Be brief, honest, and sincere as you write your message on a "thinking of you" or no-message card.
Example Sentences for Step 1
I am sorry to hear that your father is seriously ill. When we learned of the serious nature of your illness, we were both shocked and saddened. We are concerned that you have had more than your share of pain and illness recently. I was distressed to learn of John's brain tumor.
2
Offer your compassion and, if possible, include a shared memory, but avoid writing it as an epitaph.
Example Sentences for Step 2
It must be so upsetting for you to see such a brilliant mind unable to communicate. I am still amazed, after all these years, by the knowledge of history your father shared with us on our trip to Kansas. We are sure that your children are taking it hard, but we will continue to hope and pray for you.
Example Sentences for Step 3
If you need a shoulder to cry on, mine is always available. Perhaps I could gather together some old family photographs and personal journals for you to reminisce over while bedridden. If there is anything at all that we can do to ease your burden at this difficult time, please don't hesitate to ask.
Diagnosis/The News
Treatment
- As they’re going through treatment, reminding them that you’re part of their support system is also very helpful. Comment on their strength; remind them of a time in their life when they showed great courage; tell them why you admire them and how they’ve overcome other challenges. Find ways to inspire them; to help them see the bigger picture as they go through the everyday/every-…
Remission
- Remission can come in different shapes and sizes. For some it’s, “Yes, we’ve beaten this!” If that’s the case, here are some messages you can write: 1. Greatest news ever. 2. So happy for you and your family. 3. I’m crying, I’m so happy. 4. You worked so hard. And I am so happy. 5. My favorite day ever. 6. You will inspire so many. 7. Cancer is no ...
End of Life
- This is the most difficult time, but your words can still have a positive and uplifting impact. It’s important to keep things feeling in the now: be cheerful and bring sunshine to their day. Remember they can be very tired so less might be more. In some small personal way let them know you are thinking of them — mention the weather, something that reminded you of them, or …
Add A Digital Gift Card
- Pair a digital gift cardwith a personalized get well ecard, for an extra special surprise for the recipient. Simply select the retailer you’d like to purchase a gift card from then you’ll enter the name and email of the recipient and send. If you’re an AG member you only pay the amount of the egift card. We also have a checkout as guest option for a $1.99 fee. Browse our selection of reta…